Positive Attraction #45 ©
Whatever you are trying to attract in your life – a partner, new job, or living situation – you must believe yourself worthy, or equal to it in your heart, soul and mind. Your thoughts and feelings must be positive not only in your desire, but also must know you deserve it. You must love it enough to hold a true visualization of yourself within it, and know truthfully that it will make you happy. And it must healthy, and joyful as you live in or with it. In other words, not a partner who has negative habits, or does not respect you, or isn’t equal to you; or a job that will cause you stress, or again not be respective of you and your talents. Then, and only then, will the Universe allow it to come to you without struggle or strain. You shouldn’t have to fight for it, if you are in the flow of it, as you are then one with it. Of course, if negative requests are granted, it is for the lessons to be learned, even if repeated until you have learned them! It is more than ‘be careful what you ask for,’ you need to learn what is your truth? – what do you really want in your life? Of course, those answers will change with time, as will the requests.
Positive Attraction does not require a miracle or quantum leap, just your consciousness to be ripe and ready for your heart’s desire. It will come naturally, when you are in the flow, as if the next logical step. You cannot feel any stress, frustration, or negative thoughts, as to you not being good enough for it. If you are matched to something you truly deserve, and together you have unity with it, Universal law then brings it to you. And, while no one can interfere or be able to take it from you, in a relationship, your time together may have a preset limit by Divine Destiny. For example, the couple that falls in love, has a child and then one dies or leaves – it is perhaps the child for which you were brought together. That Divine Destiny of genes, or the limited time that both parents contributed to forming, raising or guiding the child. Part of this lesson is that no one dies before their time, yet we must make the most of every moment together, for none of us knows when anything may end.
Also accepting, that once the lesson or experience a person was brought into our lives to give us has been satisfied, then they may be removed from us. Too, there is the being grateful for what was given to us – ‘better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.’ It may be hard to fathom that there are those poor, lonely souls that have never known the rapturous, joyful bliss of unconditional giving love, even for a moment. Again, the idea that “I would rather have twenty minutes of wonderful, than a lifetime of ordinary.“ Yet in reality, we all truly want more than twenty minutes, we all want a life less ordinary, because how few among us would admit to being ordinary or mundane? Is it negative ego or positive pride that makes us think that we are above the crowds? That is a question to ponder, while I do think it is a choice to feel you are worthy of more – whatever more means to you. Gratitude is an attitude that the Universe responds to – the more grateful you are, the more is given to you. Appreciate something for what it is, and it will grow and bloom into something wonderful; find fault or imperfection, and it wither and die. I do believe we should grab for the brass ring, and what’s attached to it. Just don’t get caught up in the details, and also it becomes an issue when you try to put expectations on your attractions that involve other people. Understand, visualizing a creation in front of you, other things are created around you.
The Universe offers us so many glorious gifts and opportunities beyond the comprehension of many of the unawakened masses. How many men and women are still stuck in a common ego “Fairy Tale?” A female who holds on to a modernized version of the belief that a knight in shining armor is going to gallop up on a white horse and save her from her personal misery. So she spends her time “miserable” believing the only salvation is meeting her “knight”. For a man this might be a new car or job, or money that will bring him women swooning, or respect from others. They both believe their misery will be solved by an external factor, rather than doing the self-inquiry, and steps to heal and empower themselves in true understanding. If ego desires and needs are still being perpetuated as the priority of your manifestation skills, there will always be a hidden glitch in what you receive. Material things have a finite satisfaction, and never really fill that gaping hole within your soul as being loved for who you are.
Exercise: Making a relationship fill the hole or gap, or needing someone from the outside who completes you, is a false panacea. Mutual, or one sided, expectations of love need to be examined, acknowledged and discussed. How much do you need to flaunt your material possessions or status? Can you list ten things that attract you about your lover that is not physical or material? And, vice-versa? How much have you shared and agree on regarding beliefs, ethics, family, politics, religion, etc? There is no fine line between love and hate – for the opposite of love is not hate, but apathy. How much of your Pasts have been shared, acknowledged and let go of regarding behavior, etc.? Can you honestly say to each other that your love is unconditional? Do you have any “ifs” regarding your relationship or love? Is there trust, truth, and no skeletons rattling? What details bonding and intimacy to you? Do they come with time or situations?
You are being shown that none of this defines who you really are. It is all merely a framework which can be changed as you do. The ego of illusion causes us to falsely identify with whatever we thought we couldn’t live without. On the path, most importantly is the shattering of your illusions – who you thought you were, what you thought you needed and how you conducted your life. Much is gained back of what was lost in new and unique ways. More than a challenging process, it has been exhausting, frustrating, depleting and sorrowful. You faced so much fear, anxiety, sadness and regret. Now look around and appreciate the love found, and the joy in the little things. You are truly protected and loved, manifesting the grandest vision of what you want in your life, as you remain calm, peaceful and in harmony with the divine flow.
There is freedom from the Past, as it is done and over with. Releasing has put the synchronization of flow in your life, as you surrendered to let your Past go. You are now into the present moment, listening to your intuition and allowing it to guide you. You are in the flow with your soul, and your truth, which means it all must resonate deep within you, as it is what you set in place prior to this incarnation. Now, all you have to do is step out of the way, and be open for the Universe to flow it all to you. What is it going to take for the love of your life to walk into your life and stay? What about financial abundance to come into your life to fulfill your Divine Destiny? Ask the Universe to show you how it gets better than this. All it takes is for you to Breathe deep and Release the Past, the negative thoughts, the pain – yes, it’s can be as easy as that.
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