Love As A Healer #44 ©
You planned this well from the parents you chose, your siblings, birth order, race, status, etc. Whether or not you had financial abundance may have been balanced by love. Some people have said they had no idea they were poor as ‘love was in such abundance, we didn’t notice we were poor.’ Others may gripe and complain, not having known love, that they were dirt poor and never knew when they’d eat or have to move, as their parents continually blamed one another. True wealth is so much more than money, it is an abundance of all the senses being filled with love. We know that love cannot be bought, yet it can be freely given and shared for unlimited reasons to unlimited people, animals and anything else that we choose. It is a most amazing thing.
Exercise: To your most inner depths, into each and every bone, you need to reach down and root out what parts of you that need to be loved, for it is also the great healer. Love erases pain, fear, doubt, insecurities, etc., as it releases you to freedom. You can learn to love yourself, even if you felt unloved as a child from those around you. Visualize yourself surrounded by the Golden Light, allow the abundant, unconditional love of God/Source to heal and wrap around you in the most protective way. Once you have savored it, show your gratitude and then remember to process forgiveness. Let go of what you were not given in the Past. This is a visual that you should practice often until you can truly feel its warmth and protection. I can now use my forefinger in vertical circles in front me, and I instantly see and feel the Golden Love Light around me, and the White Light in front protecting me. Remember, cancer and other diseases come from unconscious, unresolved bitterness that previously existed in this life or Past ones.
Much of your karma is driven by the wounded child of your Past, and those repeated negative realities that it creates in your life now. Realizing how you are affected by it, you may want to choose to NOT be a victim within it or from it. Once acknowledged, your destiny then is to chose in this life to learn, to work thorough and release that karma. Rise above the fray, you can take control of your own life. Do not give your power to your Past negative emotions to have control over you. Remind yourself that these choices are yours, you’ve chosen to make in the course of this life. Taking responsibility for them, and accounting to others, may be another thing for you to acknowledge, if even aware when they are happening. Love can be your healer.
Stillness gives you a knowing presence and awareness that you do not need to suffer. In the stillness you learn that most of your evolvement with suffering usually comes from your thoughts you created, and most of that is what is in stored in the unconscious. By asking yourself where those negative thoughts came from, as you learn those untruths about yourself, you can dissolve them, no matter who it was that said them. You are God’s perfect child, loved unconditionally and gifted in every way. This may be a process that can only be done in small steps because of the pain, but each session you will feel renewed and truly loved for who you truly are – God’s perfect child, loved unconditionally and gifted in every way. When you know this and accept this deep in your heart, you finally can rise above those negative thoughts to forego any more suffering. To receive in your pure love and acceptance requires that you empty out your vessel of all hurt and rejection, even if you are not aware of all that is there.
Self love – only unconditional love – is required to complete your process of transformation and rebirth. As very small children most of you loved yourselves because you felt love. You believed that you were deserving of all the love and abundance that this world had to offer. All too quickly, the majority of you learned that you were wrong and were bad, or not worthy or your intelligence or beauty were no longer good enough. You were probably told that in order to survive this reality, you needed to fit in more like everyone else. You therefore shifted your innate positive beliefs or unlimited boundaries to adopt those of your families, societies and cultures. You then most likely, stopped loving and believing in yourselves, as you allowed others to influence your path.
The lucky ones of us found someone who saw more in us, and within time, slowly you began to once more emerge as the bright star that you are. As belief in yourself grows from the positive response of another, you become more trusting and knowing who you are, as well as who you are meant to be. Bravery then creates independent experiments which builds confidence and sureness around you. If you don’t have to prove anything to anyone, think how freeing it would be, and suddenly it is. When you can give to yourselves that which you are craving from others, it is then that your need for others’ approval and acceptance no longer imprisons you in a state of insecurity. It is as if by magic that you realize that you are loved, and lovable, and loving to others.
The channels of communication with your Soul can be reopened when you willing touch old emotional hurts residing within you. These traumas are parts of you that have been isolated or unloved in your Past. Breathing love deep into the feelings or spots in yourself can reintegrate these fragments, so you feel whole again. Repeat as necessary, or whenever old achy pain returns. The releasing makes sure that you’ve had no attachment, or identifying yourself with them again. No longer then do any parts of yourself feel unwanted, unloved, or not good enough. You have accepted them, just as they are, with your love transforming them into something better as they are filled with love. Healing your Past restores your feelings without fear, and improves your intuition and guidance from your Soul. Remember to embrace yourself, knowing you are not alone, and that you are truly loved, safe, and secure. You love yourself as you are, without judgment, expectation, or regrets about the Past, as you are past any barrier of suffering and loneliness. You are connected again by love, and feel inspired.
You will learn that what you give to yourself, you can easily give to another. But what you deny to others, will be denied to you – not because you are being punished, but because your heart has closed. A closed heart, like a tightened fist, can neither give nor receive. This is where love again saves you to open your heart. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving. Again, that love starts with yourself and again, it must be unconditional, no exceptions – ‘warts and all.’ Stand in the mirror, looking from the top and work down telling yourself – not from the ego, but from the heart – how much you totally and completely love yourself. It is not easy, and should be done daily, if not at least weekly until you smile. If you know the joy and freedom of loving yourself unconditionally, then you will have no problem doing that for others.
For too long, Universal Consciousness or humanity has sat and licked their inner wounds of the Past. People hang onto their guilt, or stoicism and suffering, as if a badge of honor rather than allowing the areas of hurt, distress, or maiming to be healed. Like a sick dog, they continually focus on them by licking day after day. They are starving their hungry souls, though they have a sense of a need to be filled. Some do this with food, others with alcohol, or emotional dampening drugs prescribed so lovingly by their trusted physician, or maybe street sellers. Some never come into the understanding that their soul is starving for what truly gives it joy and sustenance – unconditional love. For some there will be an awakening to the simplicity of love and forgiveness. Others will never accept that the solution can be that easy. They truly believe they need to suffer.
Anger is a secondary emotion – something/someone has to spark it – this comes from a key or button pushed from your Past. Anger comes from fear, which cannot occupy the same space as love. On the opposite end, your Smile is a healing essence to yourself and others. It is a life-force Spirit energy directly connected to your whole body – every single cell. It also raises your vibration which affects everyone as it helps you connect to them – they can feel and even see that positive aura. A smile comes from happiness, which is a natural by-product of love. All proven healers of the mind, body and soul, are people filled with joy that overflows in their smile.
Americans are ‘smiling’ people – we can be spotted when we are in other countries by our smile. It is a most common positive thing that we are taught as children – smile for your photo, smile and wave at Granny or Auntie, smile when you’re happy. When I lived in Japan, I was often asked about my smile and infectious laugh – I am a basic happy, positive person. Stoicism is a solid part of their cultural foundation, and smiling is considered being not serious, or even foolish. Some of my trainees even felt that I needed to know not to smile so much, as people who didn’t know me would think that I was foolish, even stupid. While in my seven years there, I adapted and assimilated to many things Japanese, not smiling was not acceptable to me, as it truly was who I was. I once explained how Americans smiling was key to us, as we had even put the “Pursuit of Happiness” as part of our Declaration of Independence. What I did learn, was to combine “apology” – a really big Japanese cultural thing – with smiling, which no matter what country I was in, could stop anger in its tracks.
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